Emotions, the good, the bad and the ugly

//Emotions, the good, the bad and the ugly

Emotions, the good, the bad and the ugly

Why are emotions so powerful? What are they? They not only effect the way we react, but the way we breathe, move, our posture and form our connective tissues. Many people have a hard time feeling their emotions, or even consciously generating positive ones. This is why we have such a high rate of addictive tendencies. Addictions are everything from drugs, medical drugs, smoking, alcohol, sugar, shopping working , exercising and many many more. Emotions are our feelings about people, places and things. To have emotions requires that we have a body with senses (sentience), and thoughts (mind) to give meaning.

Our Western culture and, sadly, most cultures today don’t provide us with training to enhance our emotional intelligence. Also, we are generally unaware as to how the way we care for our body or how we think are the most powerful generative forces behind our emotions.

Osho says:

“Experience life in all possible ways — good-bad, bitter-sweet, dark-light, summer-winter. Experience all the dualities. Don’t be afraid of experience, because the more experience you have, the more mature you become. Search for all possible alternatives; move in all directions, be a wanderer, a vagabond of the world of life and existence. And don’t miss any opportunity to live.

Don’t look back. Only fools think of the past — fools who do not have the intelligence to live in the present. And only fools imagine about the future, because they don’t have the courage to live in the present. Forget the past; forget the future, this moment is all. This moment has to become your prayer, your love, your life, and your death, your everything. This is it”.

If we don’t put our awareness within our bodies, we diminish our capacity to feel emotions.  Awareness can only come from a place of good health and good thoughts. Lack of awareness leads to progressively greater levels of depression because not engaging ourselves with feeling and awareness narrows the frequency range of our feelings and awareness, so our lives and inner experiences get narrow. We continue to suffer. Notice you’re emotions and how you react.

With awareness, we can feel emotions that are generated merely with the changes occurring as we eat or drink, move or not move or breathe well or poorly. When we sleep effectively, eat high quality food in proportions that reflect our authentic individual needs and move our bodies in ways that give us the strength (our biomotor) profile we need to fulfill our dreams, many good things happen. As the famous psychiatrist Gerry Welsch: “When you have a big enough dream , you don’t have a crisis”.

Our stress levels are significantly lowered,  when we have the nutrition on board to generate the neurotransmitters and hormones that support healthy emotional responses and learn to feel healthy emotional responses from a healthy body. The sensations in our body  depend upon our nerves to feel and ideas to interpret. Our nerves are dependent on both hormones and blood (oxygen, nutrition and waste removal). All our communication is neurotransmitter and/or hormone interaction dependent. our hormone levels are directly tied to diet and lifestyle factors.

The feeling function of consciousness is directly tied to our capacity and willingness to engage in “awareness.” People can have everything in the world they want, and still not feel satisfied if they choose not to be aware of what they already have, are given or can give.

I am sure you have heard the saying, Take a deep breath, count to ten, before reacting or answering.

With awareness, we can feel the emotions generated by each thought we engage or create, and can choose to experience the range of our emotions, and act in response to them in ways that are life-, health- and dream-affirmative.

We have programmed beliefs and behaviours that can cause us to make choices in relationship to ourselves or others that are suboptimal and produce negative emotions within us.  These programmed beliefs usually come from loved one around us, parents, family, relatives, teachers and friends. These ideas and beliefs are from the subconscious mind, which has its  governing principles in parental, societal and cultural programming.

By feeling our emotional responses, we can choose to be aware that when such emotions begin to arise, we are being invited to ask ourselves, “Is responding to this situation as I have in the past going to create more love and harmony in my life or someone else?”

If the answer is “no,” we can then state our dream and seek a greater truth, or a more wholesome response. Instead of getting angry, we could simply say to ourselves, “My tendency is to get angry when my mother or father tries to control me. My dream is to have freedom in my life and enjoy my relationship with my parents.”

Then, we can turn the thought around from “My parents try to control me…” to “I allow my parents’ opinions to have more power over me than is healthy, and I’m an adult now.”

So, we can simply say something like, “Mum, I appreciate that you have an opinion about how I should do such and such, but I’m an adult now and I enjoy living and expressing myself this way.”

If this person continues to be negative or challenging, we may need to love them from a safer distance so that we can choose to keep generating love for them without the risk of further entanglements.

If we pay attention to our body and emotions, they often lead us to doing the things that “feel good,” be that expressing your creativity, resting, playing, eating things that support your needs or being honest about your feelings in relationships.

This is how we expand our emotional awareness and develop more emotional intelligence.

 

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About the Author:

Nisha is a certified Chek practitioner and holistic lifestyle coach.Her journey started when a visiting Laban teacher introduced her to Pilates at Dance College during her first year. It's effects were forgotten but she then re discovered Pilates through Michael King eleven years later whilst running her dance school. Her background spans over 25 years with formal training in classical ballet, modern dance, tap, national choreography, stage production and theatre. Her formation includes Pilates, Thai bodywork, Yoga, GYROTONIC, GYROKINESIS and anatomical studies. Her particular interest is fascia, and the connective lines and movement patterns that allow a full moving structure rather than the isolation of bones and muscles. Her fascination with questioning the traditions of modern medicine and fascination with searching for meaningful answers has taken her in many different directions and has offered her an abundance of opportunities gaining a wealth of knowledge. “I tried many movement modalities and extended my search after experiencing fascia, because of its simplicity in movement. Quickly, I noticed my own body changing as well as the bodies of my own clients. In the last 25 years of teaching I’ve developed a workout unique to Yoga Anatomy". Throughout her studies Nisha has done numerous dissections with Julian Baker and Cery Davies and has the opportunity to take lectures and courses from Robert Schleip, Joanne Avisons, Tom Myers, Matt Wallden, Emma Lane, Gary Carter, Paul Chek, Dan Hellman, Peter Blackaby, James de Silva plus many many more Nishas teaching method promotes reflective self-discovery and provides the requirements to integrate a shift in consciousness for attaining individual goals. She maintains that an attitude of compassion, consistency and joyous humor are excellent components to growth and expanded potential. She welcomes all level of movers from the beginner to the seasoned athlete who have a desire to increase their skill potential, also teachers and students. Her specialties include assisting post rehabilitative individuals, injury prevention for dancers and athletes and advanced movement programs.